Or are you hoping it becomes something?
Describe the situation honestly.
No labels needed — just what's actually happening.
Ambiguous relationships are one of the most common sources of low-grade anxiety and self-doubt. Research on attachment and relationship satisfaction consistently shows that ambiguity — the absence of clarity about what a relationship is — increases anxiety, especially for anxiously attached people. This exercise doesn't push toward any particular outcome. It just builds honesty with oneself, which is the starting point for any decision.